Indicators that a girl wants you
Ok so I think I'm gonna focus on how to get laid today. Not only should I do this but i think everyone should focus on it today on tomorrow, This is a perfect hook-up weekend. While the ladies know exactly when a guy likes them (most chicks think it's all the time) I want to give the guys a rung up on the competition this weekend so they can nail some hot chicks.
Intro: No matter where you are first impressions usually go a long way. Cheesy opening lines suck and will get you no play unless your the preppie jock stud that gets laid without opening his mouth. This advice isn't for you . It's for all the guys who have to rely on their personality. If your using your talents of introductions you should know better but I know you don't use your power wisely when it comes to females. A simple 'hello' is all it takes, remember try not to blink and look then directly in the eyes (close your eyes slightly to achieve maximum stare-age without blinkage). Smile too you stupid fuck, cause girls aren't gonna dig on you if your lame.
Step 2: You've said hello and she said hello back, now's your time to be daring and strike up a conversation. Tell her you had to talk to her or else you'd regret it tomorrow and you live without regret. Or tell her that her eyes caught you and you had to stop and say hi. Something complimentary but without cheese remember. You might even say that she reminds you of someone you used to have a lot of fun with. Then proceed to charm her using your personality. No self defacing talk, always positive, maybe include a story or two of how cool you are. Let her tak and ask questions but stay in control of the conversation.
Step 3: Remember that you should try and touch her arm or leg when your talking to her or telling her something good about yourself. It let's her know that you like her and it breaks the space barrier between you, I always go for the waist or small of the back especially at a club, and I always try and touch her face to mine when I have to whisper in her ear.
if you've gotten to step four your doing very good you should've talked about an hour or two. Stay locked on with this one, if you haven't then move on.
The close: Closing the deal really depends on how the conversation has gone if she has given you signals back, arm grab, smiles, playing with her hair, ask to buy you a drink, pulls you aside. You should've been alluding to hookin up in not so many words, even maybe be as bold as to whisper to her that she's driving you insane, or something similar...remember every girl is the same but different so it might take different things each time. Go in for the kiss, don't say anything, she'll either pull away and say she's not like that, and you would say that the devil made me do it. OR she will make out with you and your pretty much golden after that.
Now I'm not saying your going to get laid, you might say hi to 100 girls only 50 will say hi back, only 33 will talk to you after that, 20 will respond to flirting, 10 will give you their phone number, 8 of them will give you their real phone number, you might make out with 2 of them, and if they are friends you might take both of them home. Needless to say it's a numbers game.
If you slack at any point you can lose because the girls know there is a sucker out there ready to buy her drinks all night while she talks to other dudes. Remember be engaging, smile, have a couple stories ready, shit even tell her your going out of town to LA tomorrow morning if you want. If your looking to hook-up doesn't matter what you say cause your just looking to hook-up.
So have fun this weekend, and girls give it up to the not so good looking guy with the good personality cause he's gonna bang the hell out of you.
Intro: No matter where you are first impressions usually go a long way. Cheesy opening lines suck and will get you no play unless your the preppie jock stud that gets laid without opening his mouth. This advice isn't for you . It's for all the guys who have to rely on their personality. If your using your talents of introductions you should know better but I know you don't use your power wisely when it comes to females. A simple 'hello' is all it takes, remember try not to blink and look then directly in the eyes (close your eyes slightly to achieve maximum stare-age without blinkage). Smile too you stupid fuck, cause girls aren't gonna dig on you if your lame.
Step 2: You've said hello and she said hello back, now's your time to be daring and strike up a conversation. Tell her you had to talk to her or else you'd regret it tomorrow and you live without regret. Or tell her that her eyes caught you and you had to stop and say hi. Something complimentary but without cheese remember. You might even say that she reminds you of someone you used to have a lot of fun with. Then proceed to charm her using your personality. No self defacing talk, always positive, maybe include a story or two of how cool you are. Let her tak and ask questions but stay in control of the conversation.
Step 3: Remember that you should try and touch her arm or leg when your talking to her or telling her something good about yourself. It let's her know that you like her and it breaks the space barrier between you, I always go for the waist or small of the back especially at a club, and I always try and touch her face to mine when I have to whisper in her ear.
if you've gotten to step four your doing very good you should've talked about an hour or two. Stay locked on with this one, if you haven't then move on.
The close: Closing the deal really depends on how the conversation has gone if she has given you signals back, arm grab, smiles, playing with her hair, ask to buy you a drink, pulls you aside. You should've been alluding to hookin up in not so many words, even maybe be as bold as to whisper to her that she's driving you insane, or something similar...remember every girl is the same but different so it might take different things each time. Go in for the kiss, don't say anything, she'll either pull away and say she's not like that, and you would say that the devil made me do it. OR she will make out with you and your pretty much golden after that.
Now I'm not saying your going to get laid, you might say hi to 100 girls only 50 will say hi back, only 33 will talk to you after that, 20 will respond to flirting, 10 will give you their phone number, 8 of them will give you their real phone number, you might make out with 2 of them, and if they are friends you might take both of them home. Needless to say it's a numbers game.
If you slack at any point you can lose because the girls know there is a sucker out there ready to buy her drinks all night while she talks to other dudes. Remember be engaging, smile, have a couple stories ready, shit even tell her your going out of town to LA tomorrow morning if you want. If your looking to hook-up doesn't matter what you say cause your just looking to hook-up.
So have fun this weekend, and girls give it up to the not so good looking guy with the good personality cause he's gonna bang the hell out of you.
1 Comments:
Guys aren't hard to read, they are just stupid. If you want a guy to know that you like him when your flirting you really need to almost spell it out for him. Most guys lack the perception for the hair-toss, or the laughing and putting your hand on his arm. If yor not doing these things then it's hopeless cause the guys barely pick up on these things.
Just remember that if your looking for cues that a guy digs you, if he's laughing at your jokes, and listening to you intently, he must really want you.
you should PM me on wnymusic sometime
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